2010年03月04日
The knowledge
The knowledge of psychological health: Reason why avoidant personality forms
Main reason that avoidant personality form psychology of feeling self-humiliation. Psychology admit think inferiority complex come from childhood, produce competent at and agony sense that set because of being incompetent, including personal physiology and amentia,etc. influence one's own psychology too. The concrete inferiority complex produced following several reason.
1.Autognosis is insufficient, cross low and estimate oneself. Everybody always takes others as the example to know oneself, if others do lower appraisal to oneself, especially the appraisal of more authoritative person, will influence the understanding to oneself, thus underestimate oneself. Someone find personality introversive person, like, accept others' low appraisal but unwilling to accept others' high appraisal more; During the process of comparing with others, like taking one's own weakness and comparing with others' strong point too, so more discouraged than, the more feel self-humiliation than.
2.Passive self-suggestion has inhibited self-confidence. When everybody faces a kind of new situation, one hundred will weigh having the ability to deal with oneself first. Some people will because insufficient in autognosis, think " I good " often ,Because there is one such passive self-suggestion in advance, will inhibit self-confidence, it is tense to increase, produce psychological burden, the working result must not be good. This kind of result will form a kind of passive feedback function, the behavior after influencing, in this way the vicious circle, make the inferiority complex further aggravate.
3.Influence of the setback. Some people are high because of the nyctinasty of the nervous process and tolerance is low, the slight setback will give them the heavy blow, it is pessimistic and feeling self-humiliation to make passivism.
In addition, physiological defect and social reason of the life will produce the psychology of feeling self-humiliation. If this kind of inferiority complex can not be dispelled, will become a part of personality, cause shrinking back or attitude avoided that anything crops up, form the avoidant personality obstacle.
Main reason that avoidant personality form psychology of feeling self-humiliation. Psychology admit think inferiority complex come from childhood, produce competent at and agony sense that set because of being incompetent, including personal physiology and amentia,etc. influence one's own psychology too. The concrete inferiority complex produced following several reason.
1.Autognosis is insufficient, cross low and estimate oneself. Everybody always takes others as the example to know oneself, if others do lower appraisal to oneself, especially the appraisal of more authoritative person, will influence the understanding to oneself, thus underestimate oneself. Someone find personality introversive person, like, accept others' low appraisal but unwilling to accept others' high appraisal more; During the process of comparing with others, like taking one's own weakness and comparing with others' strong point too, so more discouraged than, the more feel self-humiliation than.
2.Passive self-suggestion has inhibited self-confidence. When everybody faces a kind of new situation, one hundred will weigh having the ability to deal with oneself first. Some people will because insufficient in autognosis, think " I good " often ,Because there is one such passive self-suggestion in advance, will inhibit self-confidence, it is tense to increase, produce psychological burden, the working result must not be good. This kind of result will form a kind of passive feedback function, the behavior after influencing, in this way the vicious circle, make the inferiority complex further aggravate.
3.Influence of the setback. Some people are high because of the nyctinasty of the nervous process and tolerance is low, the slight setback will give them the heavy blow, it is pessimistic and feeling self-humiliation to make passivism.
In addition, physiological defect and social reason of the life will produce the psychology of feeling self-humiliation. If this kind of inferiority complex can not be dispelled, will become a part of personality, cause shrinking back or attitude avoided that anything crops up, form the avoidant personality obstacle.
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2010年03月04日
The psychology
The psychology of Chinese medicine keeps in good health: It could be physically and mentally healthy that the psychology is balanced
The cloud of the archaism, " it is flat to become " . fashion wigsThere are the all things only in the world " It is flat " ,it could succeed thing, could the healthy in people, could the harmonious in society. Chinese medicine ancient books and records "in through "in say " it is neither the secret in the male genitals nor to manage in spirit in high and level tone " " . Meaning means, negative and positive, qi and blood of the human body get the equilibrium each other, just favorable to good health and a long life.
It is " flat " ,Should first " The heart is flat " . As the saying goes " Calm " ," angry sum " Meaning all of people physiological function the gentle and pleasant to coordinate,favorable to by good health and a long life like this. In all ways to keep in good health, it is the most important that the psychology is balanced. " by " say " inside The heart is the monarch's officer " ,It means the heart is deciding whole body, so only the psychology is balanced, psychological health, just favorable to the physiological function of every system of human body, reduce disease, slow aging. Thus " kindhearted, everything is good " .
Certainly, " heart " here Mainly point the psychology,hk loan calculator it is not heart. The person such as the patient who suffers from tumour of a lot of serious illness on the body, if can keep the psychology balanced, can prolong life in spite of illness; Will aggravate the condition otherwise, even jeopardize the life.
The cloud of the archaism, " it is flat to become " . fashion wigsThere are the all things only in the world " It is flat " ,it could succeed thing, could the healthy in people, could the harmonious in society. Chinese medicine ancient books and records "in through "in say " it is neither the secret in the male genitals nor to manage in spirit in high and level tone " " . Meaning means, negative and positive, qi and blood of the human body get the equilibrium each other, just favorable to good health and a long life.
It is " flat " ,Should first " The heart is flat " . As the saying goes " Calm " ," angry sum " Meaning all of people physiological function the gentle and pleasant to coordinate,favorable to by good health and a long life like this. In all ways to keep in good health, it is the most important that the psychology is balanced. " by " say " inside The heart is the monarch's officer " ,It means the heart is deciding whole body, so only the psychology is balanced, psychological health, just favorable to the physiological function of every system of human body, reduce disease, slow aging. Thus " kindhearted, everything is good " .
Certainly, " heart " here Mainly point the psychology,hk loan calculator it is not heart. The person such as the patient who suffers from tumour of a lot of serious illness on the body, if can keep the psychology balanced, can prolong life in spite of illness; Will aggravate the condition otherwise, even jeopardize the life.
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2010年03月04日
Have measured
Have measured and suffered from social neurosis and treated oneself
The person suffering from social neurosis will be disagreeable or fear in the face of the crowd, they not only feel shy, and there is strong uneasiness or repel the sense to the world beyond oneself. Therefore produced the social life and incompatibility,product labeling anxiety of production and social obstacle of the colony.
The psychological doctor points out three following points are measured oneself, can know whether have already suffered from social neurosis by oneself:
1,Is it unwilling to become the focus that others pay attention to?
2,Do you fear others think you dull-witted or worry seeming very shy?
3,Know and fear to think in front of others others speak or unwilling to do some things in shy or too shy without sum?
If you had situation at two o'clock among them in the above three points, probably suffer from social neurosis; If these situations have already been wanted to hide from at home by you, it is unwilling to keep in touch with any stranger, you may just need to accept consultation or treatment.
Treating social neurosis can be divided into psychotherapy and medication, the person with lighter symptom only needs to accept the psychotherapy, the doctor will do the psychology to build and understand the main reason why the patient produce the social neurosis in the course of consulting for the patient, convince by patient analysis order from the crux, help the patient to set up self-confidently. If the condition is relatively serious,Comelow 姊妹裙 need medication of cooperation.
The person suffering from social neurosis will be disagreeable or fear in the face of the crowd, they not only feel shy, and there is strong uneasiness or repel the sense to the world beyond oneself. Therefore produced the social life and incompatibility,product labeling anxiety of production and social obstacle of the colony.
The psychological doctor points out three following points are measured oneself, can know whether have already suffered from social neurosis by oneself:
1,Is it unwilling to become the focus that others pay attention to?
2,Do you fear others think you dull-witted or worry seeming very shy?
3,Know and fear to think in front of others others speak or unwilling to do some things in shy or too shy without sum?
If you had situation at two o'clock among them in the above three points, probably suffer from social neurosis; If these situations have already been wanted to hide from at home by you, it is unwilling to keep in touch with any stranger, you may just need to accept consultation or treatment.
Treating social neurosis can be divided into psychotherapy and medication, the person with lighter symptom only needs to accept the psychotherapy, the doctor will do the psychology to build and understand the main reason why the patient produce the social neurosis in the course of consulting for the patient, convince by patient analysis order from the crux, help the patient to set up self-confidently. If the condition is relatively serious,Comelow 姊妹裙 need medication of cooperation.
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