2010年03月04日
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The knowledge of psychological health: Reason why avoidant personality forms
Main reason that avoidant personality form psychology of feeling self-humiliation. Psychology admit think inferiority complex come from childhood, produce competent at and agony sense that set because of being incompetent, including personal physiology and amentia,etc. influence one's own psychology too. The concrete inferiority complex produced following several reason.
1.Autognosis is insufficient, cross low and estimate oneself. Everybody always takes others as the example to know oneself, if others do lower appraisal to oneself, especially the appraisal of more authoritative person, will influence the understanding to oneself, thus underestimate oneself. Someone find personality introversive person, like, accept others' low appraisal but unwilling to accept others' high appraisal more; During the process of comparing with others, like taking one's own weakness and comparing with others' strong point too, so more discouraged than, the more feel self-humiliation than.
2.Passive self-suggestion has inhibited self-confidence. When everybody faces a kind of new situation, one hundred will weigh having the ability to deal with oneself first. Some people will because insufficient in autognosis, think " I good " often ,Because there is one such passive self-suggestion in advance, will inhibit self-confidence, it is tense to increase, produce psychological burden, the working result must not be good. This kind of result will form a kind of passive feedback function, the behavior after influencing, in this way the vicious circle, make the inferiority complex further aggravate.
3.Influence of the setback. Some people are high because of the nyctinasty of the nervous process and tolerance is low, the slight setback will give them the heavy blow, it is pessimistic and feeling self-humiliation to make passivism.
In addition, physiological defect and social reason of the life will produce the psychology of feeling self-humiliation. If this kind of inferiority complex can not be dispelled, will become a part of personality, cause shrinking back or attitude avoided that anything crops up, form the avoidant personality obstacle.
Main reason that avoidant personality form psychology of feeling self-humiliation. Psychology admit think inferiority complex come from childhood, produce competent at and agony sense that set because of being incompetent, including personal physiology and amentia,etc. influence one's own psychology too. The concrete inferiority complex produced following several reason.
1.Autognosis is insufficient, cross low and estimate oneself. Everybody always takes others as the example to know oneself, if others do lower appraisal to oneself, especially the appraisal of more authoritative person, will influence the understanding to oneself, thus underestimate oneself. Someone find personality introversive person, like, accept others' low appraisal but unwilling to accept others' high appraisal more; During the process of comparing with others, like taking one's own weakness and comparing with others' strong point too, so more discouraged than, the more feel self-humiliation than.
2.Passive self-suggestion has inhibited self-confidence. When everybody faces a kind of new situation, one hundred will weigh having the ability to deal with oneself first. Some people will because insufficient in autognosis, think " I good " often ,Because there is one such passive self-suggestion in advance, will inhibit self-confidence, it is tense to increase, produce psychological burden, the working result must not be good. This kind of result will form a kind of passive feedback function, the behavior after influencing, in this way the vicious circle, make the inferiority complex further aggravate.
3.Influence of the setback. Some people are high because of the nyctinasty of the nervous process and tolerance is low, the slight setback will give them the heavy blow, it is pessimistic and feeling self-humiliation to make passivism.
In addition, physiological defect and social reason of the life will produce the psychology of feeling self-humiliation. If this kind of inferiority complex can not be dispelled, will become a part of personality, cause shrinking back or attitude avoided that anything crops up, form the avoidant personality obstacle.
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